So here I am, bored out of my mind, and I stumble upon this gem of an article ‘31 Ways to Meet A Quality Man’ from the author Pari Livemore who wrote ‘How to Marry A Fabulous Man’
Therfore, I thought I would put my two cents in…
I am not going to into detail because then we would be here all day
but here are the highlights…for me, at least
1) Know what you want
List the three most important qualities you admire in a man. Only date men who have those qualities.
^i know my top three…i will not settle for anything less
2) Always look your best
You never know when or where you’ll meet someone.
^i have a problem with this one…he is going to like no matter what.
he may think my best is when i am outside, in the heat, running with no makeup and sweating like crazy…personally i think thats when i am at my worst (and dont expect me to get all dolled up for the grocery store. maybe sometimes, i may get “cute” but never looking my best)
3) Buy a dress
…that makes you feel beautiful and wear it often.
^no joke. there is nothing like a great dress to make you feel amazing!
4) Be a flirt
Do a little flirting if you’re in a safe environment. Don’t be afraid to stare at an attractive man from across the room.
^this one isn’t good for me. i usually end up looking like a tard.
5) Get sporty
Observe or participate in athletic events. Join a ski, volleyball or tennis club.
^yes please
6) Date online
Sign up with an Internet dating service. Try niche ones for people with similar interests such as religion, politics or the arts.
^to me, thats just weird…and creepy
7) Go for the friends
If a guy has cool friends, throw him a surprise birthday party.
^this is just wrong..especially if you and him have been flirting or one of you thinks there is a possibilty with the other…never EVER go for the friends
8 ) Practice recycling
Trade your old beaus with your friends.
^another just weird one. i don’t want my friends dating my ex’s nor do i want to date their ex’s…there’s a reason why we aren’t together.
9) Turn up the kitchen heat
Learn to cook a few simple, delicious meals. Start a cooking class for singles.
^i do not cook nor do i have the desire to ever cook. it’s a little something called A.D.D. that does not make me ever have the desire to cook
10) Be open-minded
If a man has the qualities you want, even if he’s not perfect, make an effort to date outside your comfort zone.
^this is one i definately to learn. i am so dang picky that i won’t pay attention to you unless you fit my mold…i should probably not be so picky but i don’t want to settle. they’re just may be some stuff that could use a leeway
11) Be your best self
Polish the facets of your life, both skills and attitudes.
^yup. i’ve been there…for almost 23 years. thanks for the reminder
12) Reinvent yourself
Lose some weight, buy a new wardrobe, develop new interests or break old habits.
^trying to do that, but does that make me or not me?
13) Don’t be too aggressive
Why serve yourself to a man on a silver platter? Make it more difficult; give him the can and let him open it.
^well I have tried this, he was gone shortly. but then again I did try the other side, and he is no longer here either…which one?
14) Visualize what you want
Conjure visions of a successful courtship and a beautiful marriage.
^i do..its called sleeping
also, isn’t it really in God’s timing?
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^Misty May-Treanor, President Bush, and Kerri Walsh
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